tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3108427182887392052024-03-12T21:50:03.021-05:00Kimmie'z Universe*My experiences with my perfect partner...spankings included!*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-81643012849003064672012-02-21T22:26:00.001-06:002012-02-21T22:26:50.353-06:00My Oh MyMy oh my, it's been a very long while since I last posted. It's been almost a year since I quit smoking! I've made some spanking videos with Malachi. We're getting married in a little over 2 months, so I've been busy planning that which has been a bit stressful. It's a Celtic themed wedding with men in kilts and me in a Medieval/Celtic style dress. We are planning on attending TASSP for our honeymoon and are very excited (and I'm nervous) about that! I've found out recently that I have some disturbing health problems but I'm getting them taken care of, both mentally and physically. He's helping me become a stronger person and I'm very appreciative of that. Overall things are alright, I'm trying to stay positive, and I hope everything is well with all of you too. <3Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-91675791055435355062011-07-12T01:20:00.001-05:002011-07-12T01:20:46.527-05:00Screams of an emotionally disturbed girl.<div><p>I just want to let it all out, scream it all out, bleed it all out. I just want you to feel what I feel, see what I see, hear the awful things that I do. I do...</p>
<p>Normalcy is a dream of mine but it's one step forward and ten steps back...ten huge steps! Strength is welcomed, please come to me, I beg you. I don't want to regret my entire life...</p>
</div>Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com4Ouachita National Forest, 100 Reserve Street, Oden, AR, United States34.633261 -93.581269tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-6090202892155686082011-07-09T23:06:00.001-05:002011-07-09T23:06:31.700-05:00Google+Anybody want an invite to Google+? Leave me your email address and I'll send you an invite :)Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-71622710802582458722011-07-08T02:05:00.002-05:002011-07-08T02:08:26.298-05:00Missing you!Just a quick hello to all of you. M and I are doing well and I miss this blog and all of you dearly. I hope to start posting more often...well, more often than not at all. :P Hope everyone has been having a spanking good time! Looove to all!Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-28083478668704383272011-01-22T12:06:00.002-06:002011-01-22T12:19:59.076-06:00Control IssuesMy fiance (Oh, yes! I'm engaged!) has brought to my attention that I have a major issue with control. I try to control anything and everything around me. I always knew I did...but it didn't truly hit me until he sat me down and told me. I get very upset and moody when I can't control a situation. I think this is the reason I get angry sometimes when I'm being spanked, even when I want to be spanked! It's ridiculous, yet I still can't completely just let go. When receiving a spanking it always seems to go from anger (from the fact that I feel like I can not take the pain so I get angry at myself and take it out on others sometimes...) to laughing when the endorphins kick in. It has been pointed out to me that it can be quite distracting in videos. I need to find a way to overcome this. Anyways, I'm a bit distracted at the moment so I'll be back later, perhaps. <br /><br />Love to all!<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-8183417155449722632010-11-24T13:18:00.003-06:002010-11-24T13:33:34.956-06:00NegativityI've always been a pretty negative person but I go to the extreme on occasion. It's like I can't stop the script in my head and I'm hoping that can change. I've already seen quite a bit of improvement by just being around people that love me for who I am. This helps me realize that maybe I'm not such a bad person after all. Still though, I go through these rough spots. For the past couple of days I have been feeling/being extremely down on myself and I can't shake it. Every time I see myself, I look away. I can't stand the way that I look physically and I don't like the weakness inside of me. I am working on exercising more to help the former problem but I having a feeling the latter will be significantly more difficult to overcome. That one has been with me since I was very young. <br /><br />The other day I called myself fat/ugly and my boyfriend (who will hereafter be called M) didn't like it and neither did I but I just couldn't stop the script running through my head. Honestly, I just wanted to cry. I hate that it hurts M when I am down on myself and I hate it that it hurts me. I wish that I could stop. I wish that I could just be this cheerful, optimistic person that everyone loves. I just never feel that I am good enough for anything or anyone. <br /><br />Maybe over time and with some help this negativity will cease to exist. We'll see. <br /><br />Thanks for reading,<br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-60360445669742608062010-11-22T07:22:00.003-06:002010-11-22T07:40:47.182-06:00Rules.My boyfriend and I have come up with a set of rules for me and they are listed below. I came up with #'s 2 and 3 and he was insistent on #1 as it does hold me back and lowers my confidence. So far, I've been good (aside from one negative statement, thank goodness for verbal warnings!) and managed to do everything well this week. I think this is very fair and could help me a lot. <br /><br />Rules:<br /><br />*Week starts of Monday and ends on Sunday.<br /><br />1.) No negative statements. Only to be punished if continued past a verbal warning.<br />2.) Exercise: 3 times a week minimum. Walking 30 minutes a day minimum. Weather permitting. <br />3.) At least 3 blogs a week regarding what's been going through my mind. Not all to be done on the same day. <br /><br />*Punishments are to be done on Monday nights or Tuesday mornings. Rules to be examined on Wednesdays. <br /><br />I must admit that it makes me a bit nervous as I've never been truly punished by him but hopefully I won't ever need to be. This provides me great motivation, not just the fear of consequences but him being there for me also gives me a sense of security. He only wants to help me with what I agree that I need help with...things that are holding me back...things that I've wanted to work on for a long time. The blog rule is simply because I have anxiety and it's a means to get some of those things off of my chest, plus writing (most topics) has always helped to calm me. <br /><br />Something that has been causing anxiety, of course, is the fear of punishment. I know that he does not ever wish to punish me but that he will if need be. I also know that he will push me past my limit and it wouldn't be pleasurable at all. <br /><br />I have heard a lot of people say that spankos can't ever be truly punished using a spanking but I think that I disagree. What are your thoughts on this? Do you think punishment spankings work or do you think that it needs to be done in other ways? If so, what ways?<br /><br />Thanks for reading,<br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-14854249635953411292010-11-20T20:34:00.002-06:002010-11-20T20:42:19.874-06:00Spanking Tube and FetLifeMy boyfriend and I have started posting spanking videos on www.spankingtube.com and www.fetlife.com My Spanking Tube link is http://www.spankingtube.com/kamokittie and my FetLife link is http://fetlife.com/users/136068 just in case any of you are interested. :)Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-87930616481407273202010-11-19T20:11:00.005-06:002010-11-19T20:33:21.987-06:00Changes.Hello all. I'm back! Life has changed so much for me and I've never been happier. In August, I met the most amazing guy and we now live together. He loves me for who I am and doesn't try to change me. Yet he is also so very supportive of me in the things I want to achieve in life and the things that I want to change. His family is absolutely wonderful. I love and adore his children and they love me back! Really, I couldn't ask for anything more. I'm truly happy. <br /><br />Oh, and of course, as a nice plus...he's a fantastic spanker. In fact, we've recently starting making and posting videos of my spankings. Spankings that I have very much enjoyed! There are some things that are causing some anxiety with me but that's really a good thing. I will add more on that in a later post. <br /><br />I just wanted to let everyone know that I'm doing very well right now and couldn't be happier. Alright, now I'm off to dear sweet dream-land.Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-73358628588709913772010-07-31T04:17:00.003-05:002010-07-31T05:25:27.807-05:00Save me from this disease.<span style="font-style:italic;">"I've been sleeping for a thousand years, it seems. Got to open my eyes to everything."</span><span style="font-weight:bold;"> -Evanescence-</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">"I tried to save myself but myself keeps slipping away."</span><span style="font-weight:bold;"> -Nine Inch Nails-</span><br /><br />Most of my life I've been studying Psychology and I'm not stupid in that area. I may not know names and dates very well but I know what it's all about. Now, why do I have so much trouble applying what I've learned to my own life? I don't know, but I do.<br /><br />I am diagnosed with Bipolar disorder and Panic disorder as primaries. I won't mention the others, because it's all pointless. I experience extreme highs and lows at any given time. There is no real time frame. I can always feel the mood swings coming on, and that is one of the scariest feeling in the world to me because I have yet to find a way to halt them. I've had this disease for a very long time. This causes a serious strain on the people in my life and in potential relationships. I feel an overwhelming amount of guilt and anger over it. The anger is towards myself, the guilt is towards myself and others involved. I'm not very good at dealing with things on my own, though I'm better than I used to be. I have been in a Manic phase for a couple of weeks now, staying up long hours and sleeping very little and I've been mostly happy. Just yesterday I hit my Depressive stage. Anyways, I'm sure (hopeful) that it would be a lot different if I had somebody there, physically with me. <br /><br />Right now, I'm seriously worrying about something in particular but I don't feel like going into detail about it on here because it involves somebody else. I want to get better more than anything in this world, but I don't want to cause others distress because of my countless number of issues.<br /><br />I need to eat right now, but I also have a problem with eating when my anxiety and depression is this high. It isn't a "I don't deserve to eat," thing. It's an "I'm going to throw up if I eat," thing. The symptoms of panic and anxiety are not pretty.<br /><br />I want to say so much more because there are so many thoughts running through my head right now but I just don't know how to say what I want to...so...<br /><br />Thanks for reading,<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-4096339196476717552010-07-30T02:34:00.004-05:002010-07-30T02:50:05.304-05:00Honesty,Trust and Communication. I'm ready!Honesty, trust and communication have always been incredibly important to me. Not to say that I'm a complete angel and have never told a lie but overall I am proud of how honest I am. In general, with me, if I do lie...it's obvious, or I eventually come out and admit it because I also tend to feel tremendous guilt even with little lies. I admittedly pride myself on my honesty and trustworthiness. <br /><br />There is someone that I have recently met that seems to have a wonderful way of understanding these three things. He treats me like a human being and not a slave. Not that there is anything wrong with that if you are into it, but it's not what I want. I have plenty of friends that treat me this way (as a 'normal' person) as well and I am very thankful for that. This guy hasn't known me long, but the communication has been consistent and lengthy about a wide variety of things, not just talking about TTWD. He seems (and I use the word "seems" because I haven't met him yet) patient, caring, honest, trusting, firm when he needs to be, and incredibly FAIR. <br /><br />I'm scared because I have a good feeling about this. I know, that sounds strange...but I've gotten my hopes up before and been let down again and again. This seems different somehow. I don't know how to explain it. It feels right but I don't trust my feelings all that much anymore. I'm learning to balance the mind and the heart. <br /><br />I'm ready to be happy. I'm ready to live my life. I'm ready to be with 'him,' whoever he may be. I'm ready to do whatever it takes to become who I want to be so that I can achieve my dreams of helping others. <br /><br />Most importantly, I AM PROUD OF MYSELF! I'm getting there.<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-12699179553725276242010-07-29T14:22:00.002-05:002010-07-29T14:23:04.505-05:00Nevermind.I hate that when things just start looking up in life, everything comes crashing down. That is all.<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-27408207312903493982010-07-26T05:16:00.002-05:002010-07-26T05:37:07.681-05:00*Please don't go, I want you to stay*Okay, so I have a problem and in my crazy mind this is a huge problem. This post will probably be pretty disorganized because my mind is running rampant. <br /><br />I recently met a guy that seems so amazingly perfect for me. Apparently there were some communication problems and I guess he thought that we were supposed to be in a relationship or something? I really don't know. <br /><br />Here's the thing. I'm currently in a state of extreme non well-being (yeah, that's probably not the best way to put it but you know what I mean). I need help getting my ass back in gear. I absolutely HAVE to finish this final college course that I'm working on and I have not been able to achieve this on my own. I know, I shouldn't have to use other methods to get things done but that is how I feel it needs to happen right now. I have a very good friend that I trust very much that I have been seeing in order to get some spanking action in. He is just a friend. I believe that if I decided to go towards the discipline aspect of things for my problem, he would be more than willing to help and I would trust him to do this. <br /><br />Now, here's the BIG issue. The new guy that I'm interested in being in a relationship with is living far away at the moment and will not be moving here for 6 months. He says there are other ways we can go about helping me with this problem (with talking it through and self-spanking). Now, that has NEVER really worked well with me before. I've been thinking about it and I just do NOT think this will work. I need real time discipline for what I'm going through because this is a highly pressing issue (the school work) that needs to get done NOW (and my dumb ass can't do it by myself!). A lot of my problem is self-confidence issues as well. There's a lot to it but I won't go into that.<br /><br />The new guy wants me to not see or get spanked by anybody at all until he gets here. Now, in my head I'm thinking..."but what if the relationship doesn't work out?" "what if I end up not receiving my diploma because of this?," "what if he is just another liar," etc. <br /><br />I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to try to make it work with this guy but we've only just met, and I've been hurt before. I guess I'm at that point where I am ready to settle down. Which in another way sucks, because I've been interested in others before and such. But he'll be living here in 6 months. <br /><br />If I tell this new guy how I feel honestly and he doesn't accept it, then I lose the chance of the possibility with him forever. <br /><br />I don't know what to say anymore, I don't know what to do. I'm so sick over this.<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-7997658379484242842010-07-21T02:23:00.003-05:002010-07-21T03:35:25.199-05:00Counselor VisitSo, I went to visit my counselor the other day and finally...after 2 years...confessed to her about my "kink." A good friend of mine helped me gather up the courage to let her in on my dirty little secrets. So, thank you (you know who you are ;-)) You may not be surprised to find out that she wasn't at all surprised that that was my "thing," because of my struggle with cutting. <br /><br />She told me that it wasn't at all abnormal to be into spanking, even the disciplinary side of it. She even gave me examples, without mentioning names, of people that had the same cravings as I! I thought this was just great!! I mean, not at ALL the response I was expecting to get out of her! She even encouraged me to go to local spanking group play meetings. I told her of my fear of ending up with someone who was truly abusive and we went over safety tips. Of course, I already had been using all of them (safe words, safety calls, etc.) except for the fact that I have never met with any local group. I've always been too afraid/self-conscious...due to my overwhelming anxiety and all that other junk. I'm thinking I will start slowly by meeting a few people at a time. I already am in correspondence with one couple in Little Rock and I am excited about meeting them in the semi-near future. She also told me not to try to "get rid" of this side of me because it will never go away. I've tried this many times in the past and it definitely never went away. And, so...I'm embracing it! Carefully.<br /><br />However, it worries me that maybe she only said these things because she was afraid of what I might do if she had shown me disapproval. But, I hardly think that she would have spoken so in depth with me about it...and known so much about it...if that were the case. *shrugs* I don't know.<br /><br />The main point of this post is that my counselor told me to try not to dabble too far into the BDSM aspect. The session ended, so we didn't get any further. Why would she warn me of this? <br /><br />Thanks for reading,<br /><br />*Kimmie* :)Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-86957854418428830242010-07-08T10:24:00.003-05:002010-07-08T10:28:36.150-05:00Things that hold me back.I miss being spanked, A LOT. It drives me absolutely insane some days. I'm tired of my lack of self-esteem holding me back. I'm tired of feeling too fat. Even though I'm really not that overweight, but compared to all of the spanking models out there, I really am. I want to lose a little weight to feel healthier and better about myself. I have access to a treadmill. Now, the question is, what is the best exercise regiment to go about doing this? Are there any tips or tricks that anyone could give me? I know, I know, walk. You know what I mean. Help? Please? I'm totally new at this. <br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-16014136487444297462010-07-08T09:32:00.003-05:002010-07-08T09:34:15.002-05:00Shall I try this again?Well, maybe I shall try this blog once again. I need to discover more of myself. We'll see. We'll see.<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-27814556351947106562009-08-05T03:15:00.001-05:002009-08-05T03:16:56.257-05:00Birthday...So, my birthday is 3 days from now...August 8th. I'll be 25 years old and I'm not happy about that at all. :( Quarter of a century old scares me for some reason. I'm REALLY not happy about the fact that I won't be receiving a birthday spanking!! There's no one around to give me one. *sniffles and tears* Seriously...I'm sad.Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-36592376438300196362009-07-31T19:14:00.002-05:002009-07-31T19:22:20.478-05:00Opportunities! PLEASE help!Omfg. Okay. I'm trying to chill out for one second so that I can type this. Um, where to start...well, I'm sure most of you are familiar with Bill and Sarah over at www.spankingtube.com I've been online friends with him for years and he recently proposed to me the idea of shooting with them and possibly becoming a spanking model. Last night he took some pictures of me via webcam in certain positions and whatnot (I can't believe I was even able to do that!) and he sent them to Michael Masterson over at www.realspankings.com and he said "yes." He gave me the go!! =D I don't even know what to think, or what to do at this moment. <br /><br />It would be a long, and very lonely, 23 hour, Greyhound bus ride there. I'm very nervous about that. I've never done that alone before. I'm trying to weigh the pros and cons there but I just can't think right now! <br /><br />I also really need to come up with an excuse to tell my family where I will be for 2 weeks. :/ Any ideas there?...because I really need some ideas!!<br /><br />Please give me advice as well. I know that most of you know a LOT more than I do about this.<br /><br /><3 KimmieKimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-8697979995035899712009-07-31T12:45:00.002-05:002009-07-31T12:49:01.204-05:00Pondering.I'm pondering the idea of taking up a business opportunity in the spanking world. Just thinking about it now though. I'll let you know, as soon as I can, if anything comes of it. Trying not to get my hopes up...<br /><br /><3 *Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-91009628099602511852009-07-28T23:37:00.009-05:002009-07-29T02:44:17.150-05:00Picture<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_Uo6gNB4I/AAAAAAAAAjA/5Jw_JU5GK4Q/s1600-h/S6302511.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_Uo6gNB4I/AAAAAAAAAjA/5Jw_JU5GK4Q/s320/S6302511.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363739480585734018" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_Uo4dbR9I/AAAAAAAAAi4/uczqgtW8ks0/s1600-h/S6302509.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_Uo4dbR9I/AAAAAAAAAi4/uczqgtW8ks0/s320/S6302509.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363739480037214162" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TQKgiN6I/AAAAAAAAAiw/JUVRUstuMeY/s1600-h/S6302508.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TQKgiN6I/AAAAAAAAAiw/JUVRUstuMeY/s320/S6302508.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363737955873732514" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TP-YvSJI/AAAAAAAAAio/7wT8KlZXsmg/s1600-h/S6302510.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TP-YvSJI/AAAAAAAAAio/7wT8KlZXsmg/s320/S6302510.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363737952619808914" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TPrHsSMI/AAAAAAAAAig/GZ1u9k494-w/s1600-h/S6302507.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fav5dDcImgQ/Sm_TPrHsSMI/AAAAAAAAAig/GZ1u9k494-w/s320/S6302507.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363737947448035522" /></a><br />I put a new picture up on the top of my blog. It was taken in Burns Park in Little Rock, Arkansas. It's a HUGE tank that I'm on. I have added a few more pictures in this blog post. The one of me and the girl kissing...that's Chastin and she is my best friend in the entire world. No, we aren't lesbians (she's married too), we just like to goof off :P<br /><br />Also, I bout some Capzasin cream and tried it out a little, just to see what it would feel like. I couldn't feel anything at all. Icy Hot hurts worse, a lot worse. Unless I'm not doing something right...??<br /><br />UPDATE: Okay so I took a shower, and about 10 minutes after I got out the Capzasin started burning. It isn't nearly as much pain as a spanking is but I'm glad I decided to try it out..it's very interesting. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-2746254673343878552009-07-25T17:04:00.003-05:002009-07-25T17:08:37.897-05:00Good for...brushing.So, a really good friend and I were at a Walmart the other day. We were in the section with the hair brushes. One of the brushes said on the packaging..."Good for brushing." Well, alrighty then. Good to know. Now if they would only have let me know if it were good for spanking. It was brush that I had owned before...so I knew it really wasn't that good for spanking. Opted for another brush, turns out THAT one was absolutely NO good for spanking...but great for brushing! *sigh*<br /><br />Also, drove past a place called "Thrashers," and I really wish I would have taken a picture of the sign. *Le sigh*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-34241660262753609502009-07-25T15:37:00.001-05:002009-07-25T15:38:25.080-05:00...Blog settings?I tried to change my blog settings but I'm not sure that it worked. Are you all still able to read this?Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-34398138001474199352009-07-25T14:04:00.002-05:002009-07-25T14:04:59.523-05:00Friends only?Is there no way to make a post to where only friends can read it?...<br /><br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-43286413038969375662009-07-20T20:41:00.004-05:002009-07-20T21:23:08.399-05:00Off Topic: LonlinessI'm sorry that this is off topic but I'm feeling a bit down and I feel the need to get something off my chest. <br /><br />Does anybody else ever get so lonely that they just end up listening to sad music and crying pitifully? It really seems that when I feel like this and need somebody to talk to the most, nobody is around. I realize that I am an overly sensitive and a pretty needy person but that isn't something that I want to change about myself. It's something I both love and hate about myself. There's really no specific reason I'm upset...really...I don't know. I just get to the point to where I don't think I have a hope in the world to actually find and have what I truly want. The only thing in this cruel, yet beautiful, world that I want. <br /><br />Also, I am a huge fan of glasses, as you can probably tell. I have found though that they are purely annoying when crying, especially when you can barely see without them.<br /><br />..."So I need you, so I need you..."<br /><br />And I'm going to end with one of my favorite songs...<br /><br />VNV NATION: "Illusion"<br /><br />"I know it's hard to tell how mixed up you feel<br />Hoping what you need is behind every door<br />Each time you get hurt, I don't want you to change<br />Because everyone has hopes, you're human after all<br />The feeling sometimes, wishing you were someone else<br />Feeling as though you never belong<br />This feeling is not sadness, this feeling is not joy<br />I truly understand. Please, don't cry now<br /><br />Please don't go, I want you to stay<br />I'm begging you please, please don't leave here<br />I don't want you to hate for all the hurt that you feel<br />The world is just illusion trying to change you<br /><br />Being like you are<br />Well this is something else, who would comprehend?<br />But some that do, lay claim<br />Divine purpose blesses them<br />That's not what I believe, and it doesn't matter anyway<br />A part of your soul ties you to the next world<br />Or maybe to the last, but I'm still not sure<br />But what I do know, is to us the world is different<br />As we are to the world but I guess you would know that<br /><br />Please don't go, I want you to stay<br />I'm begging you please, please don't leave here<br />I don't want you to hate for all the hurt that you feel<br />The world is just illusion trying to change you<br />Please don't go, I want you to stay<br />I'm begging you please, oh please don't leave here<br />I don't want you to change for all the hurt that you feel<br />This world is just illusion always trying to change you<br /><br />Please don't go, I want you to stay<br />I'm begging you please, please don't leave here<br />I don't want you to hate for all the hurt that you feel<br />The world is just illusion trying to change you<br />Please don't go, I want you to stay<br />I'm begging you please, oh please don't leave here<br />I don't want you to change for all the hurt that you feel<br />This world is just illusion always trying to change you" <br /><br />Love,<br />*Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-310842718288739205.post-26443546379949216862009-07-20T18:19:00.002-05:002009-07-20T18:21:53.914-05:00Alternative Punishments: Willingness.Someone recently asked me to write about what kind of "alternative punishments" I would be will to try if the situation ever arose that I were not physically there with a partner (or, I guess, even if the partner were there). I'm going to try to answer that the best I can. My mind is not completely here today. :(<br /><br />I'm probably weird for this but I have this problem with doing intimate things over a webcam (and sometimes camera) without FIRST meeting the person, after that I'm okay with it. I don't really know why, but it's hard for me to do. I guess it could be that they would have seen and felt me in person and know what I actually look like and who I am. *shrugs*<br /><br />Yes, it certainly depends on whether or not I would do what I was told in a long distance relationship and so far I've been pretty good at doing so. I've done the whole corner time thing and I hate corner time so it does work for a time. I'm unsure about all of the different variations that there may be...I've done certain positions, like hand behind back and sticking my bottom out, or hands on head even.<br /><br /> I've had soap in my mouth before and I hate that and it really isn't my thing and makes me feel very sick, so that would really depend on if my partner really wanted me to do that.<br /><br /> Early bedtimes would not work on me at this point in my life. I have pretty bad insomnia due to racing thoughts so it would just make me very angry and I wouldn't be able to make myself do it because I'd go more insane than I already am. Maybe someday that will change.<br /><br />Restrictions from computer, phone, music, etc. would work, but not for long distance relationship...I don't think. I consider grounding to be in the same category.<br /><br />Punishment clothing...now I recently read Angie's blog post about that and found it to be VERY interesting and it opened up my mind a lot to the subject. I'd be very willing to try it and I think that many variations would work on me. I don't own any thongs because well, I hate them. If I were made to get some and wear them...yep that would straighten me up rather quickly. <br /><br />Also, wearing clothes to sleep would drive me nuts because I can't stand having any clothing on whatsoever when I sleep. I would not get much sleep and therefore would be a good little girl from then on. <br /><br />"Silent" spankings were mentioned and I would actually not mind trying that although it sounds rather painful...but hey, that's part of why we do TTWD. I'd be willing to buy something with Capsaicin in it, although I'm unsure of what products have that it in or where I would buy any. Suggestions?<br /><br />A hard limit of mine are enemas, suppositories and such. I just...won't do it right now. I'm willing to try anything one but...I just don't know.<br /> <br />Written punishments would certainly work on me because repetitive writing drives me nuts most of the time. I'm so used to typing now, heh. So, any variation of the sort would be considered a good punishment (or part of one).<br /><br />Clothespins are another thing that works on me. The sensation those cause when I'm not, in the mood, is very intense and incredibly painful. <br /><br />Okay, my brain is overwhelmed at the moment. I'm sorry this post is so short.<br /><br /><3 *Kimmie*Kimmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11353189629605774406noreply@blogger.com1